Public Speaking training for your organisation
Why I no longer recommend in-house training…
Most public speaking trainers run in-house days. After 26 years and close to 9,000 people, I've moved away from that.
What I see actually working is different. The organisations getting the deepest, most lasting change in their people aren't booking in-house days. They're sending one or two of their staff at a time onto my open courses in Bristol, London and Manchester, alongside strangers. A steady stream of organisations now book this way.
One leader wrote back to me recently: "You're the only person who's ever turned down doing an in-house course for us. I want to use you."
Here's why I work this way.
A safe space to be honest
Fear and anxiety around public speaking are deeply personal. Facing them makes people feel vulnerable. On the course, we have honest conversations about what it's like to be the centre of attention, why anxiety and shame turn up, and what's underneath the avoidance.
Around 70% of the population experience impostor syndrome at some point, which means it's almost certainly walking around your organisation too. People will tell me, in the room, that if their colleagues really knew them they wouldn't have been given the job. That conversation does not happen in front of those colleagues. How could it?
Public speaking anxiety is partly about feeling judged, real or imagined. It's also about handling the uncomfortable feelings that come with an adrenaline rush. To work with both properly, people need to be somewhere safe - somewhere they're not also being appraised - so they can really learn and change. An open course with strangers is that somewhere.
Real skills, built from the inside
Inside that safer space, people can do the actual work. Not how to structure a slide deck, but how to handle the thoughts and feelings that get in the way of speaking well. How to connect with blank faces in the audience without reading them as judgement or boredom. How to take their place without apologising for it. How to be kinder to themselves when it matters.
And how to change what it means to be the centre of attention. Most people experience that as difficult, which is why it's a key part of the course.
One thing worth saying about who comes on the course: roughly 60% of the people who participate are perfectionists. They're often hard workers, conscientious, the ones who deliver. But that perfectionist drive turns into immense pressure when they have to speak - to the board, in a large presentation, anywhere visible. They get in their own way. The two days are particularly useful for them.
These are skills that show up everywhere afterwards, not just in presentations. Meetings, difficult conversations, interviews, the rest of life.
What this looks like in practice
A maximum of two people from any one organisation on a given course. Most companies who book this way send one person at a time, sometimes with a few months between each, sometimes back to back. The rate is up to you.
One advantage: you don't lose the whole team for two days. Your other people carry on as normal while one or two are off doing the work.
If you'd like to talk it through, I'm happy to.
You can reach me on WhatsApp, phone or email below.
A new way of working
A software engineering firm who wanted me to do in-house course, now send one person on each course I run in one city. They have re-booked 10 places for the second year and in the process, reviewed the success of the first year.
Here is what they gathered…
One of our engineers said "I will be direct and clear - this was the BEST non-technical training I took this year".
Another of our engineers went further than the one above and simply said that Speaking Infront was the most useful two-day course they had ever attended, of any kind.
One attendee has said that they have started to have conversations with strangers, participate more in meetings, speaking more nicely to themselves, and have been actively unhooking (from problematic thoughts - it’’s a bit of course jargon).
Thanks again for your flexibility in working with us, and I look forward to more successes next year.
Daniel
And here is some remarkable feedback from a woman whose organisation paid for her to come..
Hi John
I thought I would provide you with an update six months on. So far:
I have taken my first solo trip abroad
Spoke at an internal public event
Organised two summer socials for my team.
Been able to hit various goals at work.
Dined alone at various restaurants.
Had conversations with strangers which has led me to learn a different language.
Most importantly I am comfortable with being seen, which has affected my confidence and life in so many different ways.
I am sure this is just the start.
Netty
Some of the organisations who’ve funded places on my public speaking courses
Over the years, a wide range of organisations have funded places for staff on this course.
Here’s a sample. Inclusion does not imply endorsement
Academy of Medical Sciences
Action on Addictions
AlphaReal
Altus Consulting
Apetito Ltd
Art Fund
Barrett Dixon Bell Ltd
Bath University, Architecture Department
Bristol City Council
Bristol Parent Carers
Bristol Poverty Hearings
The Carers Trust
Church of England, Hereford Diocese
Citizens Advice Bureaux
City councils around the South West
Codethink
DeepL UK Ltd
Dock10, Manchester
Department for Work and Pensions
Electricity North West
English Heritage
Environment Agency
Environmental Dimension Partnership Ltd
European Central Bank
Exeter University Business School (International Management MSc)
Feilden Clegg Bradley Studios (Architects)
First Central Services UK Ltd
General Medical Council
Greater Manchester Combined Authority
Hazelwood Foods Ltd
Higher Education Statistics Authority
HgCapital
Immersive Labs Ltd
Ingenza Ltd
Integral Engineering Design
Intellian Ltd
Institute of Physics
International Health Partners
IOP Publishing
Jenson Group
Just Eat Takeaway.com
Kao UK
Kia UK
Linklaters Business Services
London Metropolitan University
Lovehoney Ltd
Major Projects Association
Maritime Pilots
McCann and Partners Consulting Engineers
Methodist Ministers’ Housing Society
Milestones Trust
Monzo Bank
MVF Global
National Health Trusts (various)
National Health England
National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE)
National Institute for Health Research
Northcoding
Outsource UK Ltd
Populous
The Prince’s Trust
Public Health Wales NHS Trust
PZ Cussons Beauty
Reach Solutions
Royal Navy (Women Naval Officers, Portsmouth)
SACO Apartments
Salford City Council
Secure Trust Bank Group
SensePost
Severn Deanery (training for NHS consultants over a number of years)
Sheffield Health and Social Care NHS Foundation Trust
Sodexo Defence
Soil Association
South Gloucestershire Youth Team
Southampton University
Speakers Corner
Spike Island (Hub for Artists)
ShareAction
Smurfit Kappa Group
Stepping Stones
Sutherland Cranial College
Symonds and Sampson
Tableau Software (London)
Travel Foundation
The Football Association
Thinc Design
Thinc New York
Tomorrow’s People (Bristol)
Tradebyte Software Ltd
Trainspeople
Triodos Bank
UCL
UK-Med
University of Manchester Students’ Union
University of Bristol
Urban Jungle Services Ltd
Winston Churchill Memorial Trust
Women Leaders in Museums Network
Youth Parliament